Starting nursery is a big change for many families. Some children settle quickly while others need more time. A gradual, consistent approach can help your child build confidence and trust in the new environment.
Visit before the first day
If your setting offers settling-in sessions, use them. Let your child see the room, meet practitioners and learn where familiar things are. Ask whether you can bring a comfort item or family photo.
Keep the goodbye simple
Long, uncertain goodbyes can make separation harder. Develop a short routine that your child can recognise, then leave confidently after saying goodbye. The nursery team can help if your child becomes upset.
Build predictable routines
Try to keep wake-up, breakfast, dressing and arrival routines similar each day. Children often feel more secure when they know what is happening next.
Expect ups and downs
A child who seems happy in the first week may become upset later as they understand the routine. Likewise, a child who finds the first few days difficult may settle rapidly. Keep talking to the setting and share anything that could help staff understand your child.